Sorry for the Silence – A Quick Update

Hey everyone, First off, I just want to say a heartfelt sorry for the quiet spell on here lately. I know it’s been a while since my last post, and if you’ve been checking in and wondering where I’ve gone – thank you for your patience. Truth is, my health’s taken a bit of a dive. My illnesses have really hit me for six, and I’ve been focusing on just getting through the days. It’s been rough, both physically and mentally, and I’ve had to press pause on most things – including writing. I didn’t want to disappear without saying anything, but it’s taken me some time to get the energy (and headspace) to sit and type this out. I miss being here, sharing things with you all, and having that little corner of connection. I’m still not 100%, but I’m slowly finding my way back. Thanks again for sticking with me – it means more than I can say. I’ll be back with more posts soon, and I’ve got plenty I want to share when I can. Take care of yourselves and each other. Andy

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